If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive…..Audre Lorde ( my silence will not protect me)Tumblr (3.0; @ibeewaddy)http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/fMb-uuXHnQU?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://so-treu.tumblr.com/post/53314445261/strugglingtobeheard-gadaboutgreen">so-treu</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://strugglingtobeheard.tumblr.com/post/53313059140/gadaboutgreen-lumpyspacejones-forgot-about">strugglingtobeheard</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://gadaboutgreen.tumblr.com/post/53312784784/lumpyspacejones-forgot-about-the-voguing-white">gadaboutgreen</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lumpyspacejones.tumblr.com/post/53312027082/forgot-about-the-voguing-white-girls-for-a-sec-and">lumpyspacejones</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Forgot about the voguing white girls for a sec and LOOK AT THIS</p> </blockquote> <p>OMG, this is everything.</p> </blockquote> <p>pumped it on them motherfuckers</p> </blockquote> <p>AND THEY FROM MOBILE ALABAMA</p> <p>QUEER DIRTY SOUTH STAND UP</p> </blockquote> <p>wtf is this? omg </p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53324786941http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53324786941Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:57:38 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4i86qUDIz1qg0wyeo1_400.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://opticalaudio.tumblr.com/post/51920701684/phylicia-rashads-letter-to-21-year-old-self">opticalaudio</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p><em><strong>Phylicia Rashad’s Letter to 21-Year Old Self:</strong></em></p> <p><span><br/><em>Dear Phylicia,</em><br/><br/><em>Romantic involvement distracts you and can blind you to what’s really in front of you. And what really is in front of you? You are. You don’t even know yourself yet. You think you know and you want to assert that you do, now that you’re a certain age, but you don’t. What’s in front of you is a whole world of experiences beyond your imagination. Put yourself, and your growth and development, first. There are long-term repercussions to what you’re doing now. Everything you do, every thought you have, every word you say creates a memory that you will hold in your body. It’s imprinted on you and affects you in subtle ways—ways you are not always aware of. With that in mind, be very conscious and selective.</em><br/><br/><em>With high hopes for you,</em><br/><em>Phylicia</em><span><br/><br/></span></span><img alt="image" height="140" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3vqikRBj81rn0wh7.gif" width="213"/></p> </blockquote> <p>wow…. this is so incredibly relevant to me. hmph. </p> </blockquote> <p>Dear me….</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53323612222http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53323612222Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:41:35 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m94v3gbY8w1qaboh9o6_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53230147758http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53230147758Mon, 17 Jun 2013 18:52:28 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_md5ab07rph1qdlfp4o1_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53229971471http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/53229971471Mon, 17 Jun 2013 18:49:58 -0400<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/1wmL9dgG1oE?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://buttonpoetry.tumblr.com/post/48241517941/tonya-ingram-unsolicited-advice-after-jeanann">buttonpoetry</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Tonya Ingram - “Unsolicited Advice (after Jeanann Verlee)” (CUPSI 2013)</p> <p><strong>“When your mother asks you why you take so long in the shower, tell her that you hate this cancer, this dark that wears you like a plague.”</strong></p> <p><strong><br/></strong>Tonya Ingram, performing for NYU on finals at the 2013 College Unions Poetry Slam Invitational. NYU went on to win the tournament for the second year in a row.</p> </blockquote>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52918905242http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52918905242Thu, 13 Jun 2013 23:06:57 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4ea3d691d70cd9543a87861c7527ad0a/tumblr_moct1xVLB81rt2ar9o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>future kids</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52918595495http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52918595495Thu, 13 Jun 2013 23:02:34 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9y3e7O38R1rxe1h2o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>my motto</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52917817586http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52917817586Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:51:29 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/50154ce598d292546fd25d960dfcc61a/tumblr_mlh6py9mhD1r9c63ao1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://18-15n-77-30w.tumblr.com/post/52913561418/queennubian-xphaqtor-yes-listen-if-you">18-15n-77-30w</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://queennubian.tumblr.com/post/48326971712/xphaqtor-yes-listen-if-you-dont-know-about">queennubian</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://xphaqtor.tumblr.com/post/48326563681/yes">xphaqtor</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Yes!</p> </blockquote> <p>listen if you don’t know about this here</p> </blockquote> <p>This was my shit (intended pun)</p> </blockquote> <p>i said this yesterday….lol</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916565275http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916565275Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:33:59 -0400<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/zunX3V7wIGQ?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://theamdaily.tumblr.com/post/52914934270/j-cole-crooked-smile-performance">theamdaily</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>J Cole Crooked Smile Performance </p> </blockquote> <p>saw this live tonight…. #jcole #bornsinner </p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916425467http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916425467Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:32:00 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/de88e9834fc68614216be2ec6c64d3e9/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/527fb8047a85a13ace88395aa3e9b682/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/460c4d564489dab95bc7b834f09edd7b/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/8c2426616c7fe5319d6df36d1884773a/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo3_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/629efa7596ba69e07fc203815669e634/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4009117de96e4f846d85668362911db1/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo6_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b9399193caf134bdd7bc53389a2d7fc3/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo8_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e70e77edb4a501070013b0005d8233a9/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo9_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/689be80c6fd09682dd6697ffe5285efa/tumblr_mocapmh1II1r9akupo7_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://weloveblackgirls.tumblr.com/post/52895927689/braidedkinks-their-style-is-killing-me-my">weloveblackgirls</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://braidedkinks.tumblr.com/post/52874585034/their-style-is-killing-me-my-imaginary-outfits-of">braidedkinks</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>THEIR STYLE IS KILLING ME… MY IMAGINARY OUTFITS OF THE DAY…</p> </blockquote> <p>I literally am having an orgasm</p> </blockquote> <p>smh </p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916328001http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52916328001Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:30:39 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/405ba3124e71ae40b73e6be3d10c2df6/tumblr_mf71om2FVL1rtq4yio1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>truth…let go,let flow</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52872542802http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52872542802Thu, 13 Jun 2013 11:44:43 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/05541691de0d369a0f0a2b6ab8ef7ed0/tumblr_mo0j7iUp1U1qaobbko1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>please don’t let me be misunderstood…..</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52872296535http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52872296535Thu, 13 Jun 2013 11:40:15 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/026d55b1f6ee0aa920bf50c07c6e42f0/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/de4444c5d2246712b7d1d0c48e55a253/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1c06a5df4a916741eeaa2495ee8d80cb/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/03b193818053fd4639433c847c08097d/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f4f6d1b62e665625aa60838e3ba2dfa5/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o6_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/209148aca55217fd60cf7ea3469f8056/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o7_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/71f6b7190e59a1ccc99cdff8e449539d/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o8_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/cec299bbb799c64688ca18778b558aac/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o9_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/b539d11465f359da8d1520fd32b556c7/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o10_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3cf63a0ca0bdc87ca8fb9fc5c63ab9ba/tumblr_mm33tubWV71qaplx9o4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>style</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52847802671http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52847802671Thu, 13 Jun 2013 01:06:18 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/c91f857591ea50b1a2bda9804c88ee76/tumblr_mlllchloy31ql2603o2_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f2fff65e244fd27bc2dc6032fdf53301/tumblr_mlllchloy31ql2603o1_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/90135fe7c928fcdfbd38071dbdaf6d87/tumblr_mlllchloy31ql2603o4_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e485bb541d608526491f89455a81ffe5/tumblr_mlllchloy31ql2603o3_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><p>cute lol</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52552636632http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52552636632Sun, 09 Jun 2013 12:23:50 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/29fa7ae0c01c2890849b3874ae91294a/tumblr_mgcazyPzHs1rg6zq1o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://eccentricsoul.tumblr.com/post/52522461377/yup">eccentricsoul</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Yup</p> </blockquote> <p>th</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52551741703http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52551741703Sun, 09 Jun 2013 12:10:18 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/5d50a0bb7d8fee07c1e4b34a2ff1c81c/tumblr_mo003dg0NL1qdxc9ao1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://rapradar.tumblr.com/post/52342349362/make-that-ass-drop-bornsinnerlistening">rapradar</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Make that ass drop. #BornSinnerListening</p> </blockquote> <p>ready for June 18</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52358453026http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52358453026Fri, 07 Jun 2013 00:47:23 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/149c39beced238467626c660d9d16216/tumblr_mnvqwnsZ3F1qhmhdfo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52174404953http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52174404953Tue, 04 Jun 2013 19:10:32 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdr4ivWzTs1rppri6o1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p>that’s what they want u to think</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52073296782http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52073296782Mon, 03 Jun 2013 14:57:32 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8g33bZP4Z1qbvaudo1_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8g33bZP4Z1qbvaudo2_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8g33bZP4Z1qbvaudo3_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><p>lawd </p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52073260539http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52073260539Mon, 03 Jun 2013 14:56:59 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e30c006b06b58b8d77936f9b656efc6c/tumblr_mnqye9rFmj1qesepao1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>daddy’s little girls all grown up!</p>http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52071277424http://ibeewaddy.tumblr.com/post/52071277424Mon, 03 Jun 2013 14:27:16 -0400